Friday, March 7, 2014

Dude's Guide to Manhood Scheduled this Spring




Pastor Travis will be leading a 6 week men's study of the book, The Dude's Guide to Manhood: Finding True Manliness in a World of Counterfeits by Darrin Patrick. Each of the 6 weeks will cover 2 chapters of the 12 chapter book. Per the publisher:

Discover the path to true masculinity—to an adventurous life of strength, purpose, and clarity.
Didn’t we used to understand manhood? Wasn’t there a time once when it was clear and straightforward? Are we lost?
Dudes, look around you: The trail we once traveled from boyhood to maturity is now so overgrown, it’s almost impossible to trace. Our vision is blurred, rendering the map that previous generations followed unreadable. Our compass needles are spinning in circles, making navigation impossible. We are stuck in dense, dangerous woods, and our communities—the wives, children, friends, and colleagues we could be influencing—are suffering as a result.
It can be tempting to give up and, like so many men today, simply exist, but take heart: Now is not the time for men to abandon our quest. We can discover the path to true masculinity—to an adventurous life of strength, purpose, and clarity.
In The Dude’s Guide to Manhood, pastor, author and dude Darrin Patrick charts a course back toward real manliness, mapping out a vision to help men find significance and influence in today’s broken, mixed-message culture. Revealing his own frailties and missteps, Patrick doesn’t preach at you but walks with you on a journey toward healing and wholeness.

Classes will begin Wednesday, March 26th @ 6:30pm as part of The Shore.  Nursery is available and kids programs for ages 3 through 8th grade take place at the same time.

The book sells for $12.23 on Amazon, there is also a Kindle version for $9.99.  A companion guide can be found from this LINK.

Thursday, March 6, 2014

Volunteers Accepted??

The final trimester of Wednesdays at the Shore starts up on March 19th and we are in the throws of scheduling our excellent volunteer staff for next term.  With the change to the new children's curriculum and the sense of excitement surrounding the program it seems people are just itching to become involved in the program.  Now for those of you who are feeling left out, there is still time to step forward.

Although we do only have a limited amount of these premier volunteer positions, we are willing to consider any and all replacements.  Just because people were slotted as volunteers in the past, doesn't guarantee them a spot.  When striving for excellence, roster spots are not guaranteed, just look at the Packers, or any NFL franchise for that matter.  Heck, I read that Harvard rejects 94% of their applicants.

So with the new format and likely high demand for volunteering, I'm trying to determine the best way to turn people away?  Let me know what you think, your choices are:
  • "Forget" to Put You on the Schedule - This would be where I really don't tell you anything after you state you're willing to help, but just never place your name in any designated positions.  
  • Thank You Note - Here you'd get a hand written thank you note acknowledging your offer.  I'd make sure to put a smiley face next to my signature.  It would likely be placed in your mailbox on a Sunday where I wasn't at church.
  • Mailed Letter - Here you'd get the official treatment.  A letter in the mail on church letterhead signed  (or at least rubber stamped) by the 6 to 8 people from leadership who are aware that you are being rejected (although there'd probably be more aware than 8). 
  • Via a Friend - I don't know everyone the same way, sometimes its easier to tell someone that is your friend and have that friend break the news to you and provide comfort.
  • Shoulder Tap - Now we are doing it face to face, but probably picking a time after service where you're engaged in a conversation with someone else.  I tap you on the shoulder, whisper the news in your ear, and head out the door.
The Best Way to Reject Me is:
"Forget" to Schedule Me
Thank-You Note
Mailed Letter
Via a Friend
Shoulder Tap
Poll Maker

OK.  For those of you lucky ones who make the cut, what are you getting yourself into?  To start with, a rotation of teams is used to provide the leadership for the evening.  Through rotations, the program is run by requesting just 9 of your evenings each year.  Just 9 of 53 Wednesdays! (I'm using years where Jan 1 falls on a Wednesday to help my argument). Volunteers help from 6:15 pm to a little after 8:00 pm that evening in a number of different roles.  They currently are:
  1. Nursery- 2 or 3 per evening.  No preparation needed.  Basically what you think it is.  During the evening you have the ability to look out windows into the gym to see other volunteers not changing diapers.
  2. Helpers- 2 per evening.  No preparation needed.  You are assisting the "Lil'K Leader" with the night's activities for the PreK and Kindergarten group.  Assist with discipline and bathroom breaks, but will not need to lead any activities on your own.
  3. Team Leaders- 2 or 3 per evening.  No preparation needed.  Assist the Johnny Rogers program (1st thru 5th) throughout the evening with team activities in the gym.  Last 30 minutes or so of night, you will lead a small group of about 5 kids in discussion time and Bible Activities.  Materials are scripted and require no advance prep.
  4. Gopher - 1 per evening.  Setup and take-down stage / screen materials.  Gather enough copies of materials for group leaders.  Prepare snacks.  This position likely will require setup efforts to begin at 5:30 pm instead of 6:15 pm to get everything in place.
  5. Lil'K Leader - 1 per evening.  Some advance prep is recommended.  A lesson plan with a number of activities and a craft is already developed for the evening.  Your responsibility is to determine what activities you will do and make sure materials are available (if needed) to fill the last 30 minutes of the evening when the video is finished.
The new curriculum is video driven and provides consistency in the manner the message is delivered each and every week.  It includes a time of worship which is a new component of the evening.  It has team competitions that assist in keeping children's attention.  Further, it provides a focused small group time, allowing the children to be more directly engaged, acknowledged and cared for by the adult leaders.

Please contact me, the church office, Allisen Shawver, or Pastor if you feel led to offer your time in this program. We would start you out by picking a few nights where you could shadow others and just see what happens. After that, maybe you'd truly be one of the "chosen few".

Kevin